Basic Skills Required for College

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Is your child academically ready to tackle on college? Even if your child is not completely ready academically, most universities offer non-credit remedial courses to help get your child to the level necessary for credit courses; however, you are paying for those remedial courses as if they were for credits toward a degree.

Every college is a little different. Generally speaking, most regionally accredited universities that are not considered ivy-league status require similar skills for successful students.

The main skills your child needs for college is grammar, writing, research, and reading. If your child can excel in those categories, the rest can be learned.

Some professors throw away college papers after x amount of grammatical errors, but most are aware that grammar has morphed into a creative process; however, if your child’s idea of a complete sentence is, “Although he will LOL when he sees that. SMH,” then your child is going to struggle in English Comp 1.

Students write everywhere in college, and if they aren’t writing, they are speaking. Content is most important, and critical thinking skills play an important role in content. Your child should be very familiar with literary devices used in literature as they will be using those in their writing.

One time waster many students struggle with is citation of sources. Google is an easy task for many children presently; however, properly citing where they got their information is not. They need to have a good understanding of MLA and APA format, with the focus based on their career choice.

College requires a lot of reading. It helps to really focus on main ideas and supporting details within a paragraph, and to use headings in note taking. Sometimes a study skills course can benefit even the smartest students.

Three Signs Your Child is Not Doing Homework

Many young students return home from school each day complaining about the seven hour school day they just sat through. This is a gripe that transcends both time and place, because children since the beginning of dawn have been complaining about school. It makes sense that after complaining about such a long day the last thing they would want to do would be homework. Unfortunately, schools require that students do homework and most schools collect that homework and it constitutes a high percentage of their grade. Therefore, homework is important. Here are a few signs that the kids are doing their homework.

Three Signs the Kids Aren’t Doing Their Homework

1. Faking sick- The number one excuse for not having homework done is “I’m sick”. Most children pull this at least once, but some pull it quite often in order to compensate for not completing their homework. It usually starts the night before with complaining about not feeling good and ends up in the morning with fake coughing, a sad face, and a request to feel their forehead.

2. Early Morning Homework Sessions- If a parent constantly finds their child or children at the computer early in the morning or deep in a textbook at seven AM, it’s usually a sing that something else is taking precedence over the homework and now it’s getting done at the very last minute.

3. Call from Teacher- This is the most obvious sign, because it’s usually the teacher calling to say that the child is not completing, handing in, or try on their homework. This sign is self explanatory and usually stems from faking sick, or early morning homework sessions.

Whether it’s too much TV and video games, or the faking sick routine, students will find multitudes of excuses to not complete or hand in homework, however, because of the importance placed on homework it is the role of the parents to ensure that their children are keeping up to par.

Your Child is Heading for Mars

Okay, so not really–but as a parent, admit it, you feel like your kid’s going on a space mission when he or she’s about to head off for college. Yes, it’s an emotional time; your child is no longer a child. It is also indeed a scary time, one when as a parent you have to make sure your soon-to-be college student has everything checked out–

You have your notepad, check. As you look around your child’s old room, you make sure all clothes are accounted for–check, check. Making sure he or she has enough socks, underwear, sweaters, and every necessary pair of shoes. Another important point to make is transportation–how is your kid going to get there? Are you going to drive him or her? Or is he or she going to drive himself or herself? That’s important to know because of some of the policies about parking–

Which brings you to probably the most important aspect of preparation for college: room and board.

With room and board, some colleges have policies about where you can park or if you can park at all. Bringing a car might not be an option. Moreover, whether or not you want to spend extra dimes for a dorm room is important. Do your research on apartments, specifically Virginia Beach apartments if you’re looking at a university in that area; the same goes for any other area in the United States. If you grab a good deal in an apartment and your star student child lands a decent part-time job along with grants and loans or maybe even scholarships, and you can lose the whole roommate issue, sharing a bathroom, and having to go to a mess hall for food–not to mention an apartment usually lends you more space than a dorm room.

Sounds like a lot to put on your head? Well, it is. After all, your child is heading to Mars!